Give your waiter/waitress a sexy note to give to your partner during the evening. Blindfold your lover and feed him/her a variety of tasty tidbits. Have a naked food fight, and then clean up with your mouths. Include in your lovers lunch or send with chocolates to his/her work a sexy note and/or picture. You could include a banana with suggestions on how they can enjoy it. Fill water pistols with wine and have a 'water fight', then lick each other clean. Put a small amount of honey somewhere on your body which your lover needs to find with his/her tongue. F e e d h e r u s i n g t h e p e n i s a s a s p o o n , w h i l s t s h e u s e s h e r n a k e d b o d y a s p l a t e. Tantric Food Play Prepare a plate of bite-sized natural foods and include a glass of wine. Savor each bite and meditate on the flavors as if it is the first time you've tasted them. Being blindfolded will enhance the sense of taste. She is blindfolded and lies back comfortably while he feeds her. Allow tim

He then pours a little wine into her mouth and allows her to experience it fully. Swap roles when ready. Try these exercises in complete silence, and/or just enjoy a meal together outdoors without talking to each other. Tantric Sensory Pleasure Prepare a variety of pleasant scents and some fruits. Blindfold your lover and get him/her to sit or lie down comfortably. Introduce the different scents to your lover. He/she should smell each one deeply and separately. Next, take a piece of fruit and release its aroma by gently squeezing it. Let your lover smell the fruit then place it on his/her lips so he/she knows to allow you to place it in his/her mouth. Your lover fully experiences the taste and texture of the fruit then allows the taste and smell to combine. Swap over. Then, with both of you blindfolded, taste and smell each other in the same manner. Finish by making love, still blindfolded. Games Sexual games are on

Most drinking or betting games can be used and if you need more ideas the internet is filled with them. Here are a few to get you started. Leave a trail of clues (underwear, flower petals etc.) for your lover leading to your love nest (where ever you want him/her to find you). First person to roll a six is the boss for the night. Bet on anything. The loser owes the winner a sexual favor of the winners choice. Get two die.

Each number of the first dice represents a body part e.g. chest, mouth, genitals, ears etc. (choose your own) whilst the numbers of the other dice represent an action (suck, lick, massage etc.). Take turns rolling and doing what the die command. Using watercolor paints, paint each other. Have three lists. Sexual acts/positions, places and times. Pick one from each list and do it. Spell out things you can do to your lover on his/her back with your tongue. If they guess it, you do it. Truth or dare, adult version. Twister, naked. Write on strips of paper anything you want to do with your partner, whether sexual or not e.g. positions, places, 'date nights' etc. Pull them out of a hat and do them. Oil up and have a wrestling match. A protective ground sheet is suggested. Tantric Lion Play In a playful manner, both of you become lions. Make the sounds and move as the lion would. When you are ready, approach each other. Become territorial and ward each other off. Growl and circle wari