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THE Sex & Pleasure Book
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“The Sex & Pleasure Bookwill change lives, if you let it. Whether you’re new to sex and looking tolearn, seasoned in sex and looking to make things a little sexier, or a parent navigating how to talk toyour child or teenager, this book is for you. Good Vibrations has been a leader in making sex betterfor people of all ages, genders, orientations, and bodies since its doors first opened and it continuesto blaze trails with this excellent book. Highly recommended!”—Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., Associate Professor at Indiana University and author ofTheCoregasm Workout and Sex Made Easy“It is absolutely no surprise that Good Vibrations would publish the ultimate how-to, why-to, what-tobook about sex. For decades, people have relied on them for products and advice that wasdependable, progressive, and above all, human. I plan to recommend this book to many, many patients—the shy ones, the bold ones, and the curious ones. There’s something in here for absolutelyeveryone.”—Dr. Marty Klein, Sex Therapist and author ofSexual Intelligence: What We Really WantFrom Sex, and How to Get It“Good Vibrations has created an important resource guide for women’s empowerment. Yes,empowerment means having agency in all aspects of our lives from the boardroom to the bedroom.Healthy sexuality is key to our personal power. When I was a young woman, my mom didn’t have thecourage to talk to me about sexuality. Luckily, she did have Our Bodies, Ourselves on the bookshelf.The Sex & Pleasure Book will be that guide for women of all ages to embrace our bodies and ourpassion. Pleasure is our birthright. Thank the goddess for Carol Queen and Good Vibrations!”—Abiola Abrams, Self-Empowerment Coach, author ofThe Sacred Bombshell Handbook ofSelf-Love“People have trusted Good Vibrations to bring them quality sex ed and orgasms for decades, and thisbook is a reminder why: it’s sex-positive, comprehensive, inclusive, and dedicated to demystifyingall the amazing diversity of sex and sexuality. Carol Queen and Shar Rednour are the brilliant, badass aunts we all need to teach and advise us. Every one should own a copy of this book!”—Tristan Taormino, Author, sex educator and director of The Expert Guide to FemaleOrgasms“Good Vibrations has always been a safe and pleasure-filled space for everyone. Men feel ascomfortable as women, cisgendered and transgendered alike, are included, addressed and celebratedi n The Sex & Pleasure Book. Dr. Carol Queen and Shar Rednour provide smart, compassionate,thoughtful, and, importantly, practical advice to the whole person in a multitude of possible humanexperiences across the spectrum of passion, sexuality, relationships and even love.”—Dr. Hernando Chaves, Doctor of Human Sexuality, Licensed CA Marriage & FamilyTherapist“This is the one! An inclusive, compassionate, funny, and comprehensive guide to being a human withboth a brain and genitals. If everyone, everywhere read this book, we’d probably have world peace.”—Emily Nagoski Ph.D. in Health Behavior, Author of Come As You Are: The Surprising NewScience That Will Transform Your Sex Life

Do choose a character that excites you and/or your partner if you have one. If you are single and doing online dating profiles, dont be afraid to put your interests in your profile so you can find like-minded people. These interests could be worded in a general way or in a sexual contexthowever you like and/or feel safe putting your interests out there. Dont choose your spouses best friend or any real person that is close to both of you to use as fantasy fodder. Chances are itll bite you in the butt later onmaybe even tonight, before either of you has a chance to have an orgasm. Dont shame your partner or yourself if things dont go as planned. Do laugh and have fun even if it ends up not rocking your sex world. Role-play is theatrical and experimentalits meant to be a temporary state, and you can always try it again later.
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If you are going to use characters that might be confusing, discuss before you are in character what your verbal or body language will mean. What does the fox say? What will the Wookies love roar sound like? Do be clear about what part turns you on if you know. If you dont know, say that too! It will help ensure that element of excitement gets worked into the fun. For people who like viewing adult erotica, there are countless porn parodies on the market, so you can find your favorite TV or movie character in a sexy scenario that might just fulfillor sparkthose fantasies.
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Hot Talk Making sounds during lovemaking and masturbation can crank up your arousal level as well as enhance orgasm and the feelings of afterglow. If you are alone masturbating, then you dont need to worry about negotiating or explaining yourself to anyone. You can try moaning aloud, saying naughty phrases to yourself, or using words to live out a fantasy that you are thinking about while you touch yourself. Seems like most people have a strong opinion about how loud and wordy they do or dont want their pillow talk to be. Some people dont like dirty talk or noisy sex. For some it brings up shame or confusion around sex, so all, or just certain kinds of, sex talk prevents them from blissing out on their bodies; it keeps them in their heads and focused on whatever issues might come up. They cant relax if they are thinking about the neighbors, the church they grew up in, or conversations in their head
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People who have no shame about sex might dislike talking for other reasons. Some find it distracts them from their bodily sensations; theyre going for a body high and getting lost in the moment, but their partners voice pulls them out of that altered state. Others might love the right kind of talk but are so particular that if their partner says what to them is the wrong thing, it ruins the fantasy in their head, confuses them, or involves words that are a turn-off instead of a turn-on. On the other hand, many people love sexy sounds and hot talk during sex. Moaning and breathing and saying Oh yes! are classic ways to let the good sensations flowing inside you shine through to the outside. Not only can these sexy sounds let your lover know they are pleasing you, but as our friends the Tantra practitioners might tell us, opening up your lungs can enhance your feelings as well,
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